all it takes is one black sheep

there has to be a more effective way of evangelising.

it's not easy to win people over. sometimes, it may take years of friendship or relationship, before the other party begins to open up and become more receptive. but the key to winning people over is definitely not to pass a stranger a pamphlet, and tell him (or her) that he is a sinner and is going to hell if he doesn't believe in the Lord. such comments are more likely to infuriate the listener, than to stir up sufficient fear in him to instantly convert.

all it takes is one negative experience for people to seal the door and form a bad impression that would stick around for a long time (or even forever).

just like everything else in the world - if you want a harvest, you have to constantly and conscientiously sow the seeds. some things are good to share, but be sincere and patient, not aggressive and pushy. and never forget, always, always show respect for individual preferences.