31.12.09

YOU have been a blessing!

new year's eve is the best time to review and reflect on the year that has just passed.

the last year of the decade has been a very pleasant one for me - friendships were renewed, new bonds were forged, familial ties were strengthened, academic aspirations were attained, and many personal goals were accomplished.

when they said the transition from childhood to adolescence was tough, it was a lie. because i think the transition from school to the workforce is way tougher than i imagined, way harder than i was prepared for. sometimes, i still feel as if i have been sent on an eternal exile into an endless desert. but thankfully, my life has not been that dry because of these people, who are like oases where i can make occasional stops at:
  • bean - when i need somebody to talk to, or simply to sit in silence with
  • jingjun - when i need somebody to entertain me, hear my dirty secrets or put up with my nonsense
  • laypheng and changnings - when i need someone to cheer me up or cheer me on
  • eleen, cheryl, sam and fxk - when i need emotional/ professional support, when i feel like doing something crazy, or i want to be sent on a hysterical laughing spell
  • vanessa, hernghuei, weifang, andre, and zhuanghui - when i need warmth, familiarity, and comfort
there are many more people whom i have to count my blessings for - janice, yun, aaron, squadmates, 30th, 26th, my honours class, my mentors, my very wonderful colleagues and anyone who has brought a smile to my face this year.

thank you for all things wonderful, thank you for all things beautiful - i pray you would bear with me for the next decade as well. (:

THANK YOU for being the blessing of my life, and may the year ahead with filled with joy and love aplenty!

30.12.09

shoebox of photographs with sepia-toned loving

overdue photos of the people i met in hanoi - the following photos were taken in my friend's cafe:


this was taken when i was helping jane (not in picture) wrap her christmas gifts. we were trying to do an advertisement for gatsby.


dinner time! :D the food was prepared by toby - the friend of my insurance agent whom i became fast friends with (yes! i'm so glad i changed my agent) - and his staff.


the nine of us! the group consists of two singaporeans, one filipino, and six vietnamese! within the group, there were five of us who could speak english, three who could speak mandarin, and seven who could speak vietnamese. imagine the amount of translation we needed at the table! but it all worked out very well. (:


noticed something different about me in this photo? this very cute boy was the one who cut my fringe for me. :D


farewell shot! the boy on the far left said i looked like i'm 19! that totally made my day! (guys, you can consider it as an awesome pick up line ;)

well, that closes one very memorable chapter of my 23rd year.

29.12.09

enough of bad news!

as we approach the end of the decade, i find it exceedingly depressing to read the news.

for the past few days, they have been summarising the worst of the decade.

first, they consolidated all the acts of terrorisms that shocked the world. then, they featured all the major natural disasters that took us by storm (with special emphasis on the death toll). and guess what, even the life! section couldn't resist featuring the worst dress, the worst movies, the worst novels... can't we remember only the good stuff?!! what happened to the positive psychology movement?

bad news is full of bad news. i dread to read the papers tomorrow.

26.12.09

going solo in cambodia & vietnam

if i were to summarise my holiday, i would call it the trip of many gifts.

in Siem Reap, God gave me physical strength and endurance. exploring the angkor archaeological park was no easy feat as i had to battle against the afternoon heat, the blazing sun and my own physical weakness. by mid-day, i often had to seek shelter in the shade to rest my tired feet and aching knees. furthermore, some of the temples had such steep and eroded stairs that i had to overcome my fear of heights to experience the best views at the peak.


entrance of Angkor Thom.


Bayon temple is one of the must-sees in the park.


a cute little boy i spotted at the Bayon temple.


A breathtaking view of Angkor Wat.


Sra Pon was my tuk tuk driver. sitting in his tuk tuk made me feel like a royalty! he also provided icy cold water and towels free of charge! if you ever need a tuk tuk driver, ask me for his contact. ((:


sunset at Phnom Bakheng - not an impressive shot though. climbing up Phnom Bakheng was memorable, because the steps were insanely steep!


sunrise at Angkor Wat. the sunrise is overrated, but still it was worth crawling out of bed at 4am.


one of my favourite shots.


a little girl selling bracelet in the premises. in angkor, child labour is rampant. the younger ones would be seen selling handicrafts, while some older boys double up as tuk tuk drivers and the older girls work at the street stalls.


a close up shot of Banteay Kdei (if i haven't got the names of the temples mixed up)


the skies are so beautiful in cambodia!


that's yours truly, cam-whoring in my spartan hotel room. =p

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in Phnom Penh, God gave me resilience. compared to Siem Reap, Phnom Penh was a much harsher place because people were more aggressive and pickpockets are apparently quite prevalent. The streets were very dusty, and the afternoon heat could leave you feeling so dehydrated.


this is tuol sleng genocide museum, once a prison in the late 1970s where the Khmer Rouge captured and tortured many innocent civilians.


this is the royal palace..



and the national museum, with its elaborate Khmer architecture and extensive collection of Khmer art.

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in Ho Chi Minh city, God gave me courage. as you already know, crossing the road requires more than just skill. it commands a lot of guts from somebody who grew up in a country where most people faithfully abide to traffic rules and the roads are very orderly. HCMC was also the city where i realised that i was braver than i thought - with the sudden flight cancellations that required me to choose a road less travelled.


the Ben Thanh market is a great place for shopping - if you know how to bargain.


the reunification palace, where important guests are received. the lobby of the palace is also a popular place for wealthy people to hold their weddings!


in case you're curious, this is how the interior of palace looks like inside.


this picture was taken on my train ride to Danang. due to a very last minute flight cancellation, i had to find alternative means of transport to get to my next destination, and the train was the fastest option i had. however, because i purchased the ticket very late (six hours prior to the departure) i was forced to take a soft seat instead of a bed, and the 17-hour journey turned out to be quite a horror unique experience. i was in a coach full of Vietnamese who did not speak a word of english. i was practically like an alien, but still, everyone showed a lot of kindness towards me.

on my left, was the granny who sat beside me.

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in Hoi An, God gave me the peace and serenity that i needed badly, after surviving a tiring overnight train ride with no shower and little sleep. Hoi An is a quiet little town famous for its craftwork, tailors, lanterns, colorful lanterns and pretty cafes. although it was drizzling most of the day, i did not let the rain dampen my mood. i merely spent a lot of time chilling out at the lovely restaurants, hiding in people's porches, and shop-hopping for souvenirs.

a collage of my best shots taken in Hoi An.

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finally in Hanoi, which was my favourite of all, God gave me hope. He showed me hope through a group of people who found happiness despite the difficult past they have been through. He showed me warmth through their company, their hospitality and a very sumptuous home-cooked dinner. He spoke to me through a friend, who taught me what it is like to live by faith. it reminded me that He will not judge me, nor abandon me.

i do not have the photographs yet, but i believe the best memories are best kept in our hearts, not in sight. you do not have to see it, to remember it. in time to come, i may forget how these people look like, or what they said, but i will never forget how they made me feel.

this solo trip was much tougher than my last one, but with the many gifts i received along the way, i have found it much more exhilarating, rejuvenating, and meaningful.

knowing that God takes me to good places and good people, i am eager to see where my next vacation will bring me to. (:

[/edit]: as i have received some requests for my itinerary, i actually edited my original one to add in comments and actual expenditure. if you are interested, you may download a copy here.

24.12.09

jetstar almost robbed me of my christmas

lo and behold! jetstar did it again today.

when i reached the airport in the late morning, i was told at the counter that my domestic flight had been postponed to two hours later. just like the last time, there were no calls, no emails, no notification before hand. except this time, it was worse, because i had a connecting flight from ho chi minh to singapore at 5.25pm and i could not afford to miss it.

if i miss my flight home, it would mean that:
  1. i will be stranded in HCMC for the SECOND time. HAHA. talk about deja vu!
  2. i will have to spend christmas alone in a city with completely no festive spirit.
it would be nightmare on pham ngu lao part two.

so when i was still in the air at 4.20pm, i prayed and prayed for divine intervention.

4.30pm, the plane landed. 4.35pm, the plane's exits opened. but i couldn't just dash to the arrival hall because the plane stops in the middle of nowhere, and we had to wait for the jetstar bus to come and ferry us to the arrival hall. 4.45pm, people were still taking their own sweet time boarding the jetstar bus. 4.50pm, the bus crawled 30 metres to the arrival hall.

4.52pm, i ran out of the arrival hall of the domestic terminal. 4.53pm, i sprinted 200m to the international terminal with my messenger bag, my 6kg backpack, and 1kg worth of coffee in my hands. 4.54pm, i ran up two flights of escalator to the second floor. 4.55pm, i arrived at the tiger airways check-in counter -

and, thank God there was still a staff at the check in counter!!! i barely made it! if i was one minute late, i swear i would have missed it. but i didn't! i was given a ticket pass back to my sunny island, and i made my second dash to the boarding gates. and finally! i touched down at my seat on the plane!

i am so thankful to be back home. i need a few days' rest and some quality time to catch up with my friends, and after that, i will diligently do up my travel log!

so till then, i'd like to wish everyone a very happy christmas!

23.12.09

the city i fell in love with

after moving through five cities and more than 2500km, i am glad that i found my favourite in my last stop.

hanoi is so charming and enthralling. i tried to describe it, but i would never be able to do enough justice to the city's charm. i like it so much that i am making a mental note to visit again next year.

as i leave today, i hope i will not get consumed by my material-driven life in singapore that i forget my promise. because despite its wintry cold, this is the city that moved me. its landscape memersizes me. and this is where a group of people made me feel a warmth that i have always long for.

i cannot bear to leave.

18.12.09

nightmare on pham ngu lao

ho chi minh city has been such a nightmare for me.

firstly, i was down with a flu when i first arrived on a bus from phnom penh. so during my two days in HCMC, i spent more time sleeping than sightseeing, and i blame it all on the antihistamines that i took.

secondly, crossing the roads is such a horror here. traffic lights are scarce and zebra crossings are not adhered to. basically, the traffic flows endlessly like a river, so people just cross this river anywhere, anytime. and the secret to a safe crossing is a steady pace, and a quick prayer that the bikes will dodge from you, despite their incessant honking.

thirdly, i reached the airport this morning, only to find out that my domestic flight has been cancelled for the SECOND time. can you believe that!?! i even checked my email last night to be sure that they didn't cancel again. and yet they still did.

so i'd say again, that HCMC is a nightmare for me. and i am still stranded in this nightmare.

9.12.09

off to indochina

with less than twenty four hours to my trip, i feel so unprepared!

but nonethless, i did find some time to prepare a list of things i would like to pray for:
  1. clear maps, helpful passerbys and good judgment so that i don't lose my way too badly!
  2. plain and shabby looks so that no pickpockets or thieves would bother to steal a second glance at me.
  3. good hygiene so that i don't get the runs, even after having street food
  4. honest merchants and xe om drivers so that i would not be overcharged despite my poor bargaining skills ):
  5. clean and insect-free guesthouses (nice and friendly hosts would be a plus!! :D)
  6. calm and cool weather (no storms and floods please!)
  7. smooth transition from country to country, state to state (no extortion by officials please!)
  8. leniency at the check-in counters so that they would not force me to check in my backpack (at the extra cost of USD$12-30)
  9. opportunities for me to contribute to the locals by buying their produce or crafts
  10. an absolutely awesome adventure!!
i will be back for christmas, so please don't leave me out in your plans! ): look forward to sharing my second solo voyage in around two weeks' time!

2.12.09

in search for happy pills

this is one of my favourite scenes from my latest addiction, 海派甜心:



sometimes, don't you feel that happy moments are only a mediator for the bad things to come?